
Examples of Abusive Behaviors ("Red Flags")
Control: one partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do.
Dishonesty: one partner lies to or keeps information from the other.
Physical Abuse: one partner uses force to get their way.
Disrespect: one partner makes fun of the opinions and interests of the other.
Intimidation: one partner tries to control every aspect of the other's life.
Sexual Abuse: one partner pressures or forces the other person into sexual activity without their consent.
Dependence: one partner says they "can't live without" the other.
Hostility: one partner may "walk on eggshells" to avoid upsetting the other.
Isolation: one partner separates the other from their friends and family.